Author: Melissa, Tania and the girls
This article is designed for
women that are into CFNM scenarios or planning a CFNM event. My girlfriends and
I
are very into CFNM fanaticises and have been for sometime. When we were on
holiday we went to a few strip shows and
discovered how erotic it is to have a man naked surrounded by fully clothed
women. Since then we have experimented
with some different CFNM situations and girly nights, thus building a wealth of
information on how to have a great
girly night in. 1) The Guy: we discovered in the course of our investigations
that it is best to have only one guy.
Although parties with loads of naked men are great, the problem is that when
there are other men around, guys form
a pack instinct and are more confident. The aim of CFNM is to give the women all
the power so having one guy, the only
guy and especially the only naked and exposed person, surrounded by clothed
women intensifies the vulnerability
he feels, leaving him more at your mercy. The first CFNM party we threw had ten
girls and a hired male stripper.
Although the night was great, we felt it could have been better. The stripper
did get naked and did allow a certain
amount of touching, but he did not masturbate himself enough and he controlled
who touched him quite a lot. As
such we did not feel as empowered as we wanted to. So for our last few parties
we have taken a different path to
getting a guy. One of the girls on a night out suggested that we get one of our
male friends to do it, which we
decided was a great idea. However, we decided not to use a guy who willing
wanted to be a toy for us instead we wanted
someone who was more reluctant. So we decided to use a guy called Forest who was
a model for one of my friends’ art
classes. We checked him out and he was gorgeous, he was modelling in a g-string
when we saw him and although he did
not seem to mind getting down to a thong we learnt that he had never done a nude
and would feel nervous about doing
so. There was no doubt he was perfect, so we came up with a plan to force him to
do our show. Myself and Jessica the
art student took him out one evening and learn enough from him to use as a tool
for bribery and bribe him we did.
Although he agreed to do our show without too much pressure, the fact that he
had not had a lot of say in the
matter gave us a greater feeling of control. What also helped to create a higher
level of empowerment was that
unlike the previous stripper we were not paying him but forcing him and we got
to decide what he wore for the
striptease and what we did to him for the rest of the night. The aim of this
point of advice is girls; do not
settle for anyone other than the male who want to embarrass and see stripped. 2)
What to wear: From our trips to strip
shows and just general clubbing, we learnt to dress as if you were going out for
a night clubbing. One of the aims of
CFNM is to prick tease and its drives the male slave, oh sorry stripper mad to
see the girls in sexy dresses and
tight pants etc, which he wants to get them out of but is never afforded the
pleasure of doing so. When we are out
clubbing we always get loads of guys trying to get with us, which makes us feel
dominant, now imagine that dominance
with one naked and vulnerable guy. Also quite simply a guy with a hard on is so
much better and if what your wearing
gives him a stiffy then you will have even more power. One tip is that Lycra or
spandex, based clothing like tube
dresses, boob tubes and tight pants give a guy an instant erection if you brush
against them. You will have the guy
on his knees begging you just to brush passed him again - now that is female
power. 3) What to make him wear: The joy
of not using a hired stripper is that it is totally up to you. We had him dress
in a police uniform with a pair of
tight black boxer shorts and finally a black g-string. The g-string is a must
because it is the so close to nude but
not quite. Also the expression of embarrassment on a guy’s face when he is
clad only in a thong and knows it is about
to be torn off is very erotic. Most importantly though is that the guy must
remain completely naked and exposed for
the rest of the girly party. We did not permit a watch, necklace, socks, not a
single inch of his body was allowed
to be covered, he was not even allowed to try and cover his genitals with his
hands or cross his legs to hide his
embarrassment, we made sure he stayed completely on display. Just as important
is that all the girls remain
fully clothed, we decided before hand that no garments would be removed, however
we did permit him to feel our
thongs through the fabric of our clothes at one point. The importance of the guy
always being nude is that the girls
have the ha ha we can see you but you cannot see us element.
4) The Party itself: We chose a girlfriend’s flat so we could set the environment and have all our tools for the party set out. We had a few drinks and watched a few CFNM videos before we had our male strip just to get the mood right. Before we had our guy strip we also laid out the rules of the evening. That he would be naked and exposed, where as he would not be afforded the same, we could touch, tweak, grope, squeeze, lick, masturbate, massage him at anytime, but he could only touch us unless we allowed him to, he was our toy for the night and as such we had the right to do what ever we wanted with him. The reason for stating these rules, was not because he might not know all of them, but because the reminder of these facts in front of the clothed group humiliated him and because what he had agreed to before when not faced with the totally outnumbering crowd, might not have seemed as uncomfortable as it did when faced with the wicked girls. Once he had stripped down to his string, we had all the girls sit together in front of him and Jessica and I went and pulled down his thong from either side after a five second count down. We felt that us girls removing the thong would be more humiliating for the guy. We then smothered his body in baby oil and all took turns as rubbing it in- believe me I think his cock and ass were very well oiled by the end of it. That took about 10 minutes and then we had him sit with us whilst we talked, keeping the conversions very much on how pathetic men were. However we tried not to pay that much attention to him during these girly chats, only touching his body every so often. We did this quite a few times during the evening the aim was to make the guy feel very outnumbered and unimportant, also it lead to some interesting moments. For instance, when one of the girls suddenly turned around whilst in conversion and grabbed the male by the balls saying ‘women always have guys by the balls’. It caused him to groan in pain and surprise and got a laugh from all of us, at his expense.
5) The Games: We played
numerous games with the male during the evening, too many to recount, a lot
being female
fantasies that we wanted to explore. However here are some examples that we
advise you try: (i) Body shots: We were
drinking tequila and the aim of the body shot was to place the salt and the
lemon/lime on two different parts of the
male body and then lick, bite them off after drinking the shot. (ii) The prick
tease: All the girls had to touch the
male and brush against the male to give him an erection as quickly as possible.
However no one was allowed to touch
his penis or balls, the aim was to see what other areas got him stiff? The
fastest time got to keep his thong. We did
this competition twice, once when he was only naked and once when he had his
hands tied behind his back and a
blindfold on (see part iii). The aim of the second tease was to get him erect
without him being able to use the
girls’ looks to form an opinion. When he could see the girl his mind had some
say over whether her looks turned him on,
and although all of us are stunning (modesty) we wanted a women’s sensuality
to control his reactions, also we wanted
to remove any power he had over the decision. (iii) Light restraint: We tied the
male’s hands behind his back with a
silk scarf and blindfolded him for different games during the evening. None of
us girls are into heavy S&M, this was
not a dominatrix party and any heavy whipping and rubber etc would have ruined
the evening. The aim was to make the
male’s position even more degrading, not only was he naked, but helpless as
well. We did not would to use handcuffs
because they were too hard and we wanted to keep the evening feminine and
sensuous, showing that women although
softer and less brutal could get better results by unbearable teasing. (iv) Pin
the string on the penis: This
game was very much the same as throwing a hoop over the guy’s erection except
we use pairs of our panties. The
reason was that we once again wanted to keep the sensuality of the party and
felt that lacy knickers were more erotic
than big plastic rings - also they took a lot of fondling to remove. We played
this twice once with him lying on the
floor and once with him standing, both work equally well. (v) The masturbation:
We made the male cum twice. Firstly
when he was blindfolded and restrained we wanked him off and continued the
movement even after he had cum, when his
penis was very sensitive and it was painful to do so. This actually happened
more by accident; we were wanking him off
and he came from excitement so we punished him for cuming without being ordered
to do so. It turned out to be quite a
turn on: two girls at either side and a girl behind held him in place, as he
struggled from the pain and humiliation
of the continued masturbation and groaned wildly. It was such a turn on to have
a guy in such a vulnerable position,
moaning as ten girls all laughed and jeered at him. The second time was at the
end of the evening, we had him lie
on the floor with us all sitting around him, laughing and egging him on until he
came all over himself and the floor.
A perfect end to the best evening of our lives. I hope you girls out there try
throwing a party like this yourself; it
is seriously the sexiest evening ever. I had never been so wet in my life, I
even had to do a little handy work myself
later. Seriously Ladies you must try this we all agreed it was excellent. So try
it ladies we would all like to hear
about the male submission when you do and guys be afraid next time it might be
you.
Melissa, Tania and the girls.
After reading this great article we decided to throw our own CFNM party.
On behalf of myself and my girlfriends, I must say that we had the
most erotic time of our lives.